One of the best sayings I have ever heard is from a childhood memory: "You have to believe in yourself before others will believe in you."
That statement couldn't be more true. If you walk around with your head down, people aren't going to notice you and if they do, they aren't going to be interested in talking to someone feeling down. If you walk around with your head held high and with confidence, people are going to be curious as to what is making you feel so good.
Something I have learned over time is that sometimes you have to 'fool yourself' that you're happy with the way things are. Sounds crazy I know, but I can explain! If you walk around confident and smiling, chances are people are going to smile back at you, which in return leads to you having a REAL smile. Still sounds crazy to you? Try it.
Feeding off negative energy, even your own, will keep leading you in a negative direction. If you fill your life with positive energy, you will have a lot more appreciation for all of the important things surrounding you. Life is too short to live in stress, depression, and feeling sorry for yourself... do yourself a favor and do something at this very moment that makes you feel good: make yourself a nice treat, get your nails done, buy yourself something nice, go for a nice walk and notice the beautiful surroundings you have, or you can even sit down and read a good book! A smarter, grateful woman is so much sexier than a woman with just a pretty face!
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