LOVE... we all need it; in all shapes and forms... YOU DESERVE TO BE LOVED.

I bet you're thinking I'm talking about a guy again, right? Wrong. Even though I am quite boy crazy, this entry is actually about the love for a best friend... who I guess you could possibly be in love with, but not in this case. Some friends become family... She is that friend.

I remember being a teenager and friends were dependent on status, looks, and what kind of car they drove, but 'friends' aren't about that... Materials are short-lived, status may not last forever, looks fade, fashion comes and goes, and money... well, money could be here today and gone tomorrow.

Have you ever connected with someone in a way that nothing will stop you from saying or doing anything? It doesn't matter if you have something in your teeth (chances are you put it there on purpose to make them laugh) or how you look for the day because no matter what, they just love being around you? Well, this would be my best friend Vanessa. I can do, say, look bad, be sad, be happy, be mad, whatever... this girls just gets me. I'm so stubborn and she is one that will just shut me up and I listen... because I trust the advice she's giving me.

A good friend is someone that is ALWAYS looking out for your best interest, no matter what. A good friend isn't jealous of you, but praises you for your good work and accomplishments. A good friend supports you in EVERYTHING you do and not when it's just convenient for them.

I never thought it was possible to have a friend that you truly can count on for anything and everything... I was raised to be loyal and to be honest, it's part of who I am. In life, I have noticed that it usually isn't returned and I have been walked all over countless times; yet for some reason, it hasn't stopped me.

I am writing this entry and dedicating it to my best friend, Vanessa. I just wished her "good luck" on her move clear across the country to Boston, MA. I can't stop crying because I miss her so much. I keep thinking of the saying "this isn't goodbye, it's see you later," but it just hurts so bad knowing that she's going to be so far away. I've never had a friend like her, but thank goodness for technology today so it will be much easier to keep in touch... Lot's of girl time Skype dates; that's for sure!

I wish you all the best in the journey of finding that one person, guy or girl, that can/will have the pleasure of being your best friend. I think it's so important to be loyal in life and to have someone give it back to you in return.  I hope you find that person that would never lead you astray... And most of all, sometimes you just need to shut up and listen to what they have to say. In trust, they're only wanting what's best for you.

You are what you make of your life... And you are who keep yourself around. Keep high spirits, positive, driven, and loving people by your side and you will notice a great return in life. Peace, love, and happiness.

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